Have you ever noticed how sometimes, out of the blue, we feel a need to contact someone - a family member or an old friend; attend an activity or an event, which simply makes us feel good for no reason other than it just does?
Humans are known to be creatures of a pack and so by
nature, we don’t operate well in isolation.
The emergence of NDIS, seems to have created a
tendency for one-on-one (individual) support, where a
person with a disability is being taken out from their group setting to receive
one-on-one support instead.
Don't get me wrong here, one-on-one support is
wonderful and many people with disabilities can learn quicker, have access to
the community around them easily and, with more dignity when receiving this type
of assistance. There is also the benefit
of more flexibility as activities can be tailored to a person’s needs and
passions.
However, the biggest problem with one-on-one support
is the tendency for isolation to creep in, as there is no avenue for
interaction with like-minded people. This
lack of interaction, makes it difficult for such individuals to develop
socialising etiquette with others, namely members of the public, and could eventually
cause mental health problems.
I tend to see it as spending time with their 'mob'. We all know there is just something about this
that makes people feel wholesome including people with disabilities. They don't have to be with their 'mob' all the time
and it doesn't have to make sense to anyone else...but they do need this time. Be it once a week, thrice a week, or even
once a month.......
We often hear from families with intellectually
disabled children, that one of the issues their children face when attending
mainstream schools, is difficulty in making ‘real’ friends among their
peers. We need to find a way to give
these children an opportunity to spend time with their 'mob' and create a sense
of belonging among them.
Chloe Dymond has a candid way of introducing herself
when asked where she is from - she always responds saying she 'Comes from Down Syndrome'. I simply love this phrase, as I think it
gives her that sense of belonging, and I visualise “Down Syndrome” as just
being another country, with people of different views and cultural backgrounds.
Similar to how many immigrants build a
sense of belonging through community centres that reflect their ethnic origins
and have a tendency to gravitate to suburbs where people from their country of
origin tend to reside.
Chloe needs to spend time with people from her ‘country’
to feel connected to the world.
I hope the NDIS does not take away these people’s opportunity
to 'recharge their batteries' with their mob and further reduce opportunities
for the general public to engage with people with disabilities, and learn from
them. Collectively, families who have
people with disabilities, need to work together to create a healthy lifestyle
balance, for the people we care about, as well as play our role in educating
others on creating an inclusive society.
